About BOSS

BOSS represents the breakthrough you've been searching for. Crafted by Joseph Destafino, a visionary with a decade of success in running an all-inclusive wedding venue, BOSS is the key to unlocking unparalleled profitability for your venue. For those aiming to lead the pack and redefine the standards of success in the wedding industry, BOSS is your strategic advantage.



Beta tested since 2017

BOSS stands at the forefront as the premier software system, distinguished as the sole platform meticulously crafted for event venues. Joseph Destafino and his team, with his visionary design of BOSS, aimed to eliminate the complexities inherent in managing such venues, paving the way for a future defined by certainty and triumph.

Our Goal

Our ambition extends beyond being the top software innovator in the United States; we aim to consistently outpace the evolving dynamics of the event industry. Our dedication means relentless improvement of the BOSS platform, ensuring you benefit from the latest enhancements without any additional investment. With BOSS, we handle the complexities so you can concentrate on growing your business, liberated from the burdens of administrative tasks.

Let's meet the sales team

It takes a special crew to start a company and believe in the high stakes that comes with that. You truly have to believe in everything BOSS is to dedicate yourself to it. These two have done that and so much more!









Meet Erin Stafford

The dynamo behind the scenes at Bella Collina Mansion, the sage advisor to the CEO of BOSS Cybernetics, and the proud holder of a degree in Criminal Justice from Western Carolina University. With a background as intriguing as a plot from a detective novel, Erin's journey from the halls of justice to the realms of operations and cybernetics is as unconventional as it is fascinating. Legend has it Erin has never encountered a stranger, only friends she hasn't yet charmed with her Sherlockian insight and Hercule Poirot-esque attention to detail. For the past six years, Erin has been the wizard behind the curtain of BOSS, weaving her magic into training modules, turning mountains of data into insightful gems, and giving outdated materials a dignified retirement. From the embryonic sketches of BOSS's early days, she's been the architect, building it into the titan it is today, brick by digital brick, with the precision of a forensic analyst piecing together the clues of a mystery. When she's not orchestrating operations or decoding the matrix of software development, Erin is the superhero mom to a dynamic duo of twins and the better half of a finance whiz. Her off-duty adventures? Think of her as the Indiana Jones of family outings, the Serena Williams of workout regimes, and the Bear Grylls of mud runs, all while applying her criminal justice know-how to navigate the wild jungles of life with the strategy of a seasoned detective. Erin's ability to engage in conversation with inanimate objects (walls, beware) is legendary. She's devoted her heart and soul to the twin galaxies of wedding planning and software crafting, mastering every nook and cranny with the zeal of a scholar, the finesse of a maestro, and the analytical eye of a criminologist. ​ Always on the move, Erin's fuel of choice is an ever-present energy drink, her elixir for keeping the eternal flame of enthusiasm burning. In the world of weddings and widgets, she's not just a participant; she's a force of nature, leaving a trail of innovation, camaraderie, and a touch of mystery wherever she goes.









Meet Kara Wood

Introducing Kara Wood: the maestro of matrimony and the sultan of staffing at BOSS Cybernetics. By day (and often by night), Kara orchestrates the symphony of "I do's" at one of the Triad of North Carolina's most illustrious wedding venues. From the initial awe-filled tour to the starry-eyed send-off, Kara is the fairy godmother for couples, turning wedding dreams into reality with a flick of her magic wand (or, more accurately, her unmatched organizational skills). With a heart as golden as the sunsets she adores and a passion for all things Disney that rivals Mickey Mouse himself, Kara also moonlights as a women's soccer coach, bringing the same dedication and enthusiasm to the field as she does to the aisle. A proud alumna of Greensboro College, she's not just about love and soccer; Kara's academic prowess laid the groundwork for her illustrious career. At home, Kara's life is just as full, with four fur babies that rule the roost and a wife renowned for her dental wizardry—rumor has it she's given the tooth fairy a run for her money. Kara's journey with hundreds of couples has crowned her the queen of seamless celebrations. Her in-the-moment decision-making prowess is unparalleled, her presence a calming balm in the chaos of wedding day dramas. Whispered legends suggest Kara never sleeps, vigilantly warding off wedding woes and in-law invasions with the grace of a seasoned diplomat. But Kara's talents don't end at the altar. In the corporate arena, she's a titan of talent acquisition for BOSS Cybernetics, weaving her recruitment magic to attract the crème de la crème. She's the wedding whisperer, a corporate strategist, and the high priestess of hiring, seamlessly blending love stories with career trajectories. ​In a world where in-laws and outlaws alike bow to her expertise, Kara Wood stands as a beacon of hope, humor, and heart. She's not just a part of the wedding industry and BOSS Cybernetics; she's a legend in her own right—a true maestro of matrimonial and professional harmony.

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About us

We are the leaders of event planning software

You can feel good about making more money, because you're increasing your profits by increasing your vendors and clients profits too! Everyone WINS!

Vendors love us, because they can do what they love. Not admin, accounting, sales and marketing! Leave those mundane tasks to the BOSS.

Your clients love you more because you can save them an average of $5,500.00!

The venues love us because we bring soaring profits to the table!

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Apps for everyone!

True online bookings, which is not a contact us form!

We build Websites too, with no hosting fees!

Everythign you need for your venue in one place.

Let's see what Erin has to say about BOSS!
She's been here since the start of development in 2017.

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